It is Official, I am My Mother!!!

I'm her. I have now officially moved into Joan Rocap mode. You know how you always think you will be so much cooler than you mom. It is true, I don't wear polyester pants with the seams sewn down the front, or those hideous house dresses that to this day still embarrass me that my mom wore, but the evidence is in the picture. I HAD TO BUY READING GLASSES!!!! You know the little glasses that your mom wore or wears, on the little chain (I don't have a little chain, please, I still do have some coolness in me). Well I now have a pair. Although they are cool, colorful stripes, they are still, well, old lady glasses. I was at my sister's house the other day and my cell phone rang and I was trying to see who it was and I was moving it around to try to focus on the number and Alice looked at me and said "What the heck are you doing, you look like Mommy."

At that point, I had to admit the obvious. I am my mother!!!

Don't laugh, you too will become your mother one day, trust me.

I Cried All Day Yesterday

Yesterday and today is the annual Cat Country Cares for St. Jude Radiothon. Every year I cry for two days listening to the stories about kids with cancer and all the good things that St. Jude does. Every year we become Partners in Hope, which means we contribute $25 per month to St. Judes. I took the boys to the Hamilton Mall last night to donate their little $2. I wanted them to understand that these kids are kids just like them and for them to realize that we may not have a lot of money and we may have had a really suckey few months, but they are healthy and they can go out and learn how to ride a bike or play with Tech Decks or whatever. They were so proud to put that $2 that they had saved from their allowence in that little box. In First grade, Justin's teacher asked the kids to write down what they would do if they had $100. Justin wrote that he would give his $100 to people with cancer. He knows that my mom died of cancer and he thought that $100 could help some other mommy not be sick.

Money, big houses, big cars, they are just things. I am so proud that my sons know that helping people is more important.

Don't my Piggies look Pretty

Aren't they beautiful!! My sister surprised me today and took me to have a pedicure. Which was so nice of her, because I got the good feet in the family, but in all fairness, she got the good hair. Her feet look like Fred Flintstone (no offense Alice). Even Mae, the pedicure lady (we've known her for years) said "You have such nice feet, your sister, not so much." But we had a nice afternoon getting pedicures, shopping at Kohl's and hanging out. I really needed a fun day with my sister and today was the day.

Thanks Al, next week Goodwill!!!

Presidents Day

This is how Robbie spent President's Day, learning how to ride his bike. Justin has ridden a bike for a while now, but Robbie just couldn't get the hang of it. That is, until his cousin Skye showed him how, then he just took off and rode. Apparently, Skye has the magic bike riding teaching touch. Here are some pictures of them.

Justin spent the day hanging with the big boys. My nephew BJ is 13 and Justin hung out with BJ, Matt and Rob yesterday. He thought he was so cool. The boys have always hung out with their older cousins. They are not like little annoying 8 year olds, they really can hang with the big boys. So here are a couple of pictures of BJ and Justin. Justin on the scooter, (which I let him ride around the block by himself with just Robbie and Matt, for the first time) and BJ and Skye.

All in all, it was a great day off!!

8 Years Old

My babies are 8 years old today. For a long time, I didn't think I would ever have them and now they are eight years old. They are typical eight year olds, loud, messy, fighting, smart mouthed. They are also sweet, thoughtful, kind little boys. Their Dad is in the hospital on their birthday, which makes them sad, but we will get a cake and go to the hospital, like we do every day after school so that we can have dinner as a family.

Happy Birthday my Babies!!!

Mommy Hearts You!!!!!